How To Handle Adult-Only Weddings On An Invitation
One of the most complicated and common dilemmas couples face when planning their big day is how to handle adult-only weddings on an invitation and in person. But deciding not to invite kids and being straightforward about it doesn't have to be a struggle. With a little planning, you can navigate the topic with grace and ease.
The most important thing to remember when planning your wedding is that it's your day! You get to make the rules about how you want your event to look and feel, including who gets to be invited. So if you're thinking about throwing an adult-only wedding, I'm here to help you out with some tips on how to handle it through your invitations.
Be Open, Honest, And Direct
The most important thing is to let people know early and clearly that your celebration will be adult only. And since it's not uncommon for couples to want to host a no kids wedding these days, no one will be surprised at the request. Plus, announcing this in time gives parents plenty of time to make other arrangements for their children.
Do Word Your Wedding Invitations Carefully
The most important thing to remember when wording your invitations is that you shouldn’t leave any wiggle room for interpretation. You want people to know exactly what your intentions are so that there are no misunderstandings. Some people may get offended if they think their children were not invited, so it is very important for them to understand that it was not a personal decision, but rather an overall preference for the event.
Be Formal
When it comes to adult-only weddings, there are plenty of reasons to be formal in your expression. If you're not inviting children to your event, how should you word that on your adult-only wedding invitations? Here are a few ideas:
"Adults only." This is the most direct route and may be useful if you're worried about parents missing your hints.
"We have reserved a child-free evening." This is another direct option and has the added benefit of sounding more like an invitation than a warning.
"Please note that childcare will not be provided." This is the most formal option. It's straightforward and lets guests know that you won't be providing childcare for the reception.
"Regretfully, children are not invited." This option is also on the formal side, but it's important to note that "regretfully" softens the blow.
Be Clear About The Reason For Your Decision And Your Expectations For Guests
The first thing you should do when deciding whether or not you want kids at your wedding is come up with a reason why you don't want them there. This will help you decide what to write on your invitations as well as give you an easy way of explaining your decision to friends, family members, and guests.
Hopefully, now you have a grasp on how to handle an adult-only wedding invitation, as well as a smile on your face. My only wish is for you to be able to send an invitation that is warm, inviting, and leaves just the right impression when your guests receive it. If you have any other questions, feel free to contact me!
